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..mg ALLAH mengampuniku dgn setiap pembacaan,ampuni keluargaku,ampuni muslimin muslimat keseluruhannya..

Wednesday, February 22, 2012

my story..

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Assalamu'alaikum ..

just a bit of sharing.. story of mine..


this happened so many times in my life.. maybe we can get benefit from it..



~ i'm not an excellent student.. if 2 hours of study is enough for my friends , i may need an hour extra.. i'm special when comes to illness but any way it's okay coz i knew HE want to delete my sins before the time comes.. it just a matter wether i want it to be deleted or not..



ok.. back to what i would like to share...


today morning was our EOP(end of posting) exam.. and i felt it scary on prev night because we gonna have it with a lecturer who's known to be fussy n angry-bird-like...hehe..


but yesterday, i have shortness of breath and fever.. maybe the hemoglobin turn low again.. so i felt tired n uncomfortable.. sleepy.. but i knew I NEED TO STUDY because i'm afraid of the angry-bird-like lecturer...


so..


i start flipping pages from my book.. but i cant concentrate..


i stop and took PCM..


i flip again..this time not the book but my old notes.. i dont think this can help me if the angry-bird-like lecturer want to argue about evidence.. but in that circumstance, at least the old notes help me to revise what being thought in class and force my brain to think. In the end, i felt something is not right!



yes.. something is not right..


not with my health..
or my notes..
or the angry-bird-like lecturer..


the problem is with me..my thought n my heart..

i broke into tears... realising that ALLAH is with me but i'm not with HIM..


ALLAH is telling me that HE is near by allow me to feel the breathing..(i was still breathless at that time)... and so forth..


maybe i was drown in little knowledge till i immersed unconciously not realising that ALLAH is telling me " Iyyaka na'budu wa iyyaka nasta'een"..


i stop for a few minutes..


re-check myself.. ask HIM for forgiveness.. tawakkal 'alALLAH is my only intention now..


i flip my notes again..this time with better feeling and understanding..


and i ask ALLAH " Ya Rabb.. YOU are Al 'Alim.. You know everything and You know future witch i never know..hence,help me,make ease for me and make me a better muslim and servant of YOU"...


11pm..


i'm already tired that i need to lie down and read anything left that i could...


i cant cover all the topics.. but i do pick some topics that my heart(lintasan hati) think those were important and brush it over and over again..


today morning, i woke with a call to ALLAH sing in my ear..Alhamdulillah..just that,i'm not feeling fresh..mild fever and throbbing head ache.. i took PCM again with prayer that ALLAH will relief anything that bother me.. i really understand that PCM and gud sleep are only an effort.. the outcome is in HIS hand alone...


Alhamdulillah..

Alhamdulillah 'ala kulli hal..



Allah give me a nice patient,
gud case with clear cut..
and the one angry-bird-like lecturer that make me sigh was not my examiner..

even if that person will be my examiner, i'm fine with it.. even i look forward to angry-bird-like respond if i was make to present case..


that's all..


sorry if i make you read this story and you get nothing from it..


i dont know simple way to convey this message..


can anyone complete this sentence for me? (really for me)

i shall feel stupid because i'm a muslim but _______________________



thank you..


May ALLAH make you a better muslim....each day..





♥ ,


me





..people dont care how much we know untill they know how much we care..
_ISLAM MILIK BERSAMA_

Sunday, February 12, 2012

Talk to HIM..

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..people dont care how much we know untill they know how much we care..
_ISLAM MILIK BERSAMA_

Thursday, February 9, 2012

Alhamdulillah 'ala kulli hal

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Bismillahirrahmanirraheem..

tiada apa yg lebih indah dari menuturkan 'alhamdulillah' dlm keadaan hati dan jasad juga menyatakan yang sama..
dalam keadaan menyerah diri yang total kepadaNya..di situlah saat diri terawang dan merasai tenang membelai..
alhamdulillah..
di kala itu lah Dia mengirimkan makhluqNya yg bernyawa mahupun tidak utk datang bersama dlm zikrullah kpdNya..
diri melihat setiap objek itu makhluqNya..
wah!
banyak!
dan yg banyak inilah tidak henti2 bersyukur dan berzikir kepadaNya..
kenapa tidak manusia yg diberi hadiah 'berfikir' ini melakukan yang sama dan lebih dari itu?

oh Allah...

alhamdulillah..
 dipertemukan dengan gadis yang comel ini..
jika diadili dari luaran..dia tidaklah muslim(menyerah diri) secara total..
tapi hatinya..
aqidahnya..muslim..hanya sedikit perlu diperbaiki..
mungkin kefahamannya..
terharu melihat si gadis ini selalu berkorban untuk manusia lain..
sahabat didahlukan dalam apa jua situasi..
sentiasa bersangka baik..
amanah dalam tanggungjawabnya..
oh ALLAH..aku menangis penuh rintih..
gadis ini..hampirkanlah dia denganMu..

tiada hadiah yang lebih baik yang mampu aku balas atas keluhuran hatinya membantu setiap kali aku memerlukan..
melainkan aku ingin sangat dia dekat denganMu..dan pengakhiran yang baik buat dirinya..

Engkau pemilik hatinya..hatinya bersih..
hanya cuma ada coreng2 yang perlu dipadam habis..digantikan dengan lukisan-lukisan aqidah dan tarbiyah yang indah...
agar dia seperti gadis muslimah lain yang taat kpdMu.. 

dik..akak doakan moga dirimu ketemu Dia..
berada di atas jalanNya..
dan pasti..akak jg cuba upaya memimpinmu..
biar tanpa kamu sedar..

dik..akhlaq luhurmu menjadi penarik hati..
tatkala hati merintih pd Dia..pasti wajahmu menyelinap..
entah mengapa..
dirimu senyap dlm hati ini..
akak menanti...mencari..
akhirnya akak ketemu..
ia kerana tarbiyah..







..people dont care how much we know untill they know how much we care..
_ISLAM MILIK BERSAMA_

Thursday, January 26, 2012

Why Is the Prophet’s Character Described as Being Tremendous?

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In the Qur’an, the Prophet is addressed directly, “Truly, you are of tremendous character.” [Qur’an, 68.4] This Qur’anic verse intrigued Muslim scholars, early and late, especially the Qur’anic exegetes and the masters of the spiritual path, especially as the Prophet Muhammad (Allah bless him and give him peace) himself emphasized that, “I was only sent to perfect noble character,” [Ahmad] and said, “The believers most perfect in faith are those best in character.” [Tirmidhi]

What is good character?
Good character, Ghazali explains in his Ihya’, is an inward disposition that causes one to incline towards praiseworthy inward traits and praiseworthy outward actions.


How is good character manifest?

Ibn Rajab al-Hanbali and others relate that the sum of Prophetic teachings is that good character is manifest in five matters:
(1) Fulfilling the rights of others
(2) Avoiding hurting or harming others
(3) Being cheerful and positive in one’s dealing with others
(4) Recognizing the good of others and reciprocating
(5) Responding to the wrong of others with nothing but the good.

These five manifestations of good character don’t only summarize the Prophetic teachings on good character, but they also summarize the Prophet Muhammad’s own character and conduct.

First. As for fulfilling the rights of others, the Prophet (Allah bless him and give him peace) emphasized that, “Give everyone who has a right their due right,” [Bukhari] and he warned against non-fulfillment of others’ rights, “Injustice shall become manifold darkness on the Day of Judgment.” [Bukhari]

Second. Avoiding hurting or harming others is a corollary of fulfilling the rights of others. However, sometimes one can fulfill others’ rights in ways that hurt them; or we follow the follow the fulfillment of rights with hurtful reminders; or strive to fulfill rights, without considering how others feel or may consider our efforts.

Third. Being cheerful and positive in one’s dealings with others. The Prophet is described as always having been full of concern, yet he was always cheerful.

Fourth. Recognizing the good of others entails not only thanking and reciprocating those who do obvious acts of good to one, but to reflect, consider, and appreciate the less-obvious (but significant) good that countless people to for one–both directly and indirectly. We owe our very lives to our parents. When did we last thank them? Our teachers, whether at school or university, have taught us so much. When did we last thank them? The Prophet (Allah bless him and give him peace) cautioned that, “Whoever is not thankful to people is not thankful to God.” [Ahmad, Tirmidhi, and Abu Dawud]

Fifth. The greatest test of character is responding to the wrong of others with nothing but the good. This tests one’s character because one’s personal urge would customarily be to reciprocate; and one’s negative urge would be to affirm oneself. However, the way of Prophets is to respond with nothing but the good.
Upon Entering Mecca, Victorious

When the Prophet Muhamamad (peace and blessings be upon him) entered Mecca as a victor, people expected that he would seek revenge two decades of opposition, wrong, and injustice from his people. The Meccans were fearful, and some hastened to declare that, “Today is a day of slaughter.” The Prophet responded that, instead, “Today is a day of righteousness and loyalty,” and he forgave them in public address, saying, “I say to you today as Joseph said to his brothers,’There is no blame on you today. May God forgive you, and He is the Most Merciful of the merciful.’ [Qur’an, 12.92] Go! For you are free.” [Salihi, Subul al-Huda wa’l Rashad]

A bedouin once came to the Prophet, seeking some money. Without introduction or greetings, he said, “Muhammad! Give me, for you’re not giving me from your money or your father’s money.”

Despite the man’s rudeness, the Prophet gave him, and asked, “Have I pleased you?” The bedouin replied, “No, and you haven’t done me good.”

The Muslims who were standing around them were angered and surrounded the bedouin. The Prophet signaled for them to restrain, and he entered his house.

He asked for the bedouin to be invited in. When he entered, the Prophet gave him some money, and asked, “Are you pleased?” He replied, “No.” The Prophet gave him more, and asked, “Are you pleased?” The bedouin responded, “Yes, we are pleased.”

The Prophet told him, “You came to us and asked us. We gave you, and then you said what you said. As a result, there is something in the hearts of the Muslims regarding that. If you were to say in front of them what you said to me, that might remove those feelings from their hearts.” The man agreed, and mentioned the Prophet with praise and thanked him in front of the Prophet’s Companions. [Salihi, Subul al-Huda wa’l Rashad]

The Prophet was unaffected by the man’s words. His concern was for the good of the man himself and the feelings of his Companions. Why? This returns to the understanding why the Prophet character was described as being “tremendous” in the Qur’an.

Imam Junayd al-Baghdadi, one of the foremost authorities of Islamic spirituality (tasawwuf) and others have explained that, “The Prophet’s character was termed tremendous because his concern was for God alone.” [Qurtubi, Jami Ahkam al-Qur’an] What moved the Prophet was the pursuit of His Lord’s pleasure, both in acting and in responding.

This was manifest in small matters, too. Once a woman brought a baby for the Prophet to bless him. The Prophet placed him on his chest, and the child urinated. The mother reached out for the child, anxious. The Prophet signalled to let the child finish first. After that, the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) calmly rinsed the area lightly. He didn’t want to alarm the child, nor make the mother feel bad.

It is also related that though he was the busiest of people, young girls in Medina would take the Prophet’s hand and would take him wherever they went–and he wouldn’t let go of their hand until they let go of his. [Bukhari, Sahih]

Lessons in Mercy

We see from this that the Prophetic example is nothing but a manifestation of mercy. And any understanding of religion lacking in mercy is lacking in true understanding. After all, the Prophet Muhammad (Allah bless him and give him peace) having been, “sent only as a mercy to all creation.” [Qur'an, 21.107] The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) himself emphasized that, “I was only sent as a gift of Mercy.” [Bazzar and Tabarani]

The Prophet (Allah bless him and give him peace) explained, too, that, “The merciful are shown mercy by the All-Merciful. Be merciful to those on earth and the Lord of the Heavens will be merciful to you.” [Tirmidhi and Abu Dawud, from Abd Allah ibn Amr; rigorously authentic] It is a sign of the way of traditional Islamic scholarship that this is the first Hadith (Prophetic teaching) traditionally conveyed by a scholar to their students.

This mercy, manifest in good character in one’s dealings with people, is the test and barometer of faith. After all, “The believers most perfect in faith are those best in character,” as the Prophet affirmed. [Tirmidhi]

It once happened that some non-Muslims greeted the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) with an insult. His wife, A’isha, insulted them back. But the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) did not. Rather, he simply replied, “And upon you,” which is the standard reply to the greeting of, “Peace be upon you.” Then, he said to his dear wife, “A’isha! Allah is gentle and loves gentleness in all matters.” [Bukhari, from Ai'sha] And he also taught that, “Gentleness is not found in anything except that it makes it beautiful; and gentleness is not taken out of anything except that is makes it ugly.” [Muslim and others, also from A'isha]

The Key to All Relations

The Prophet made clear that the key to all relationships is upholding good character and maintaining it, even when tested. He said, “Deal with people on the basis of good character,” [Tirmidhi] and affirmed that, “Forbearance is the very best of character.”

Forbearance is for one not to be moved by anger or negative emotion–but to make one’s response based on reason and (for a believer) Revelation. Forbearance is, ultimately, intelligence, as it is the capacity to respond in the best of ways to each situation.

This restraint and concern for excellence and the greater good that underly excellence of character–and that made the Prophet Muhammad’s character “tremendous”–are virtues each of us would do well to strive for in our own lives and relationships, both as individuals and communities.
..people dont care how much we know untill they know how much we care..
_ISLAM MILIK BERSAMA_

Wednesday, January 25, 2012

dont delay and do it together..let's jom!!!

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Assalamualaikum..

Dont delay if you want to do something good..as delay might cause you to miss it or loss it...and result in failure and losses..
That is how ALLAH train us in our solah..do it at early second when the times for prayer comes..do not delay it...

Do good things together as it will help you to sustained your good deeds as people who do it together with you will remind and support you...that is how ALLAH train us to perform congregational (jema'ah) prayer...plus,it will give you surplus benefits!..when you do good deeds on frequent basis,it will help you to be good in other area and improve yourself...same thing as congregational prayer..you'll get 27x more rewards compare when you do it alone..

you get what you chose to do...
so?

..people dont care how much we know untill they know how much we care..
_ISLAM MILIK BERSAMA_
 

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